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	<title>Comments on: Why I quit Download Squad</title>
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	<description>Making the baby Jesus cry since 2002.</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 04:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Being Amber Rhea &#187; Blog Archive &#187; As long as no one personally slits your throat, it&#8217;s okay</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-21439</link>
		<dc:creator>Being Amber Rhea &#187; Blog Archive &#187; As long as no one personally slits your throat, it&#8217;s okay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 15:58:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I really respect that. Coincidentally, Melissa put up that post right around the time I quit Download Squad. Some people can stand up to that sort of abuse, and not let it get them down, and stay focused on [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I really respect that. Coincidentally, Melissa put up that post right around the time I quit Download Squad. Some people can stand up to that sort of abuse, and not let it get them down, and stay focused on [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Rev. Bob 'Bob' Crispen</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18851</link>
		<dc:creator>Rev. Bob 'Bob' Crispen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 13:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt; Iâ€™ve mentioned before that this is why I donâ€™t consider myself a hardcore activist. Iâ€™m not cut out for it. I can say with reasonable certainty that being on the front lines of this kind of stuff would turn me suicidal.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Do you  seriously think the assholes are going to leave you alone until you cross some line?

Wherever you are, that's the  front lines.

Give back as good as you get or better and don't let injustice and hate stand unchallenged. When you get tired (we all do --  we're alive (unlike some), call your friends and admirers in on the case.

I'm an admirer who wouldn't presume to call myself a friend, but I know how to throw a brick at the right (meaning wrong) target. Just ask whenever somebody deserves a brick.  IMHO asking for help  is an incredibly strong thing to do.  Because it wins.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p> Iâ€™ve mentioned before that this is why I donâ€™t consider myself a hardcore activist. Iâ€™m not cut out for it. I can say with reasonable certainty that being on the front lines of this kind of stuff would turn me suicidal.</p></blockquote>
<p>Do you  seriously think the assholes are going to leave you alone until you cross some line?</p>
<p>Wherever you are, that&#8217;s the  front lines.</p>
<p>Give back as good as you get or better and don&#8217;t let injustice and hate stand unchallenged. When you get tired (we all do &#8212;  we&#8217;re alive (unlike some), call your friends and admirers in on the case.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m an admirer who wouldn&#8217;t presume to call myself a friend, but I know how to throw a brick at the right (meaning wrong) target. Just ask whenever somebody deserves a brick.  IMHO asking for help  is an incredibly strong thing to do.  Because it wins.</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18807</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 02:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks all.

And Melissa, funny you should say that about tangling w/ blog commenters... because in my resignation email that I wrote to the DLS lead blogger, I mentioned your gig at Valleywag as an example of someone who keeps on keepin' on even in the face of tons of bullshit comments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks all.</p>
<p>And Melissa, funny you should say that about tangling w/ blog commenters&#8230; because in my resignation email that I wrote to the DLS lead blogger, I mentioned your gig at Valleywag as an example of someone who keeps on keepin&#8217; on even in the face of tons of bullshit comments.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris H</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18805</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris H</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 01:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What Melissa said.

&#60;being way too tired from marching around Berkeley all day to come up with something more original and recognizing that even if he weren't, he probably couldn't say it better than Ms. Gira anyway.&#62;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What Melissa said.</p>
<p>&lt;being way too tired from marching around Berkeley all day to come up with something more original and recognizing that even if he weren&#8217;t, he probably couldn&#8217;t say it better than Ms. Gira anyway.&gt;</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa Gira</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18801</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Gira</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 00:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know you feel conflicted about identifying about being a big-A "activist" but you are, lady. If I defined activism based on my ability or desire to tangle with blog commenters, I'd have burned out and hung up my non-existent Girl Scour Activist Badge long ago.  That said, I totally support you in resigning from the DS gig because we all need to do what we need to do to take care of ourselves.  But I don't want you or anyone else to lose sight of the fact that the work you do supporting and promoting actual social change is hugely important, thankless, and something you excel at.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know you feel conflicted about identifying about being a big-A &#8220;activist&#8221; but you are, lady. If I defined activism based on my ability or desire to tangle with blog commenters, I&#8217;d have burned out and hung up my non-existent Girl Scour Activist Badge long ago.  That said, I totally support you in resigning from the DS gig because we all need to do what we need to do to take care of ourselves.  But I don&#8217;t want you or anyone else to lose sight of the fact that the work you do supporting and promoting actual social change is hugely important, thankless, and something you excel at.</p>
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		<title>By: JRP</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18800</link>
		<dc:creator>JRP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 22:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sad.
I kinda liked your DS blog.
Anyway, best wishes.

From Russia with Oil,
-Alex

P.S.: I feel obliged to thank you for a brilliant specimen i found in those comments for my collection.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sad.<br />
I kinda liked your DS blog.<br />
Anyway, best wishes.</p>
<p>From Russia with Oil,<br />
-Alex</p>
<p>P.S.: I feel obliged to thank you for a brilliant specimen i found in those comments for my collection.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris H</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18799</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris H</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 21:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thing is, Amber, I &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; think of you as a radical feminist. It burns my ass no end that Heart, Twisty, Farley, and company have managed to take the "radical" label and that we just let them. There isn't anything radical about them; they have nothing to offer us but the same old fear and shame about our sexualities that was taught to previous generations by nuns and moral leaders like Anthony Comstock. Comstock considered one of his proudest achievements to have been driving &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ida_Craddock" rel="nofollow"&gt;Ida Craddock&lt;/a&gt;, an early feminist and birth-control advocate, to suicide. I'm sure that if Heart heard that you or Ren had done the same thing, her response would be the same as Comstock's. There is no room in their universe for sexualities or genders that aren't their own, and for that, I refuse to let them have the label "radical" without a long and bloody fight. We are the radicals. Not them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thing is, Amber, I <em>do</em> think of you as a radical feminist. It burns my ass no end that Heart, Twisty, Farley, and company have managed to take the &#8220;radical&#8221; label and that we just let them. There isn&#8217;t anything radical about them; they have nothing to offer us but the same old fear and shame about our sexualities that was taught to previous generations by nuns and moral leaders like Anthony Comstock. Comstock considered one of his proudest achievements to have been driving <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ida_Craddock" rel="nofollow">Ida Craddock</a>, an early feminist and birth-control advocate, to suicide. I&#8217;m sure that if Heart heard that you or Ren had done the same thing, her response would be the same as Comstock&#8217;s. There is no room in their universe for sexualities or genders that aren&#8217;t their own, and for that, I refuse to let them have the label &#8220;radical&#8221; without a long and bloody fight. We are the radicals. Not them.</p>
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		<title>By: RenegadeEvolution</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/03/20/why-i-quit-download-squad/#comment-18798</link>
		<dc:creator>RenegadeEvolution</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That bingo card is CLASSIC.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That bingo card is CLASSIC.</p>
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