Well, I was going to put up a somewhat flippant post about the first day of the Desiree Alliance conference, saying that it was a lot like other conferences I’ve been to, only that people were taking their clothes off. In a totally non-sexual way - the conference space doesn’t have AC, and it’s really fucking hot, so, solution? Remove some of those bulky layers! Pretty awesome if you ask me.
So I was going to write a funny ha-ha post focusing on that, and looking forward to day 2 of the conference. But the other news, now, is that my dad passed away, at 8:20 p.m. tonight (Thursday, July 17). I’m catching a 9:05 a.m. flight to Atlanta tomorrow, and then a connecting flight to Augusta at 1:18 p.m. Rusty will be joining me on Saturday or Sunday. At the moment, I feel weirdly (to other people’s perceptions, anyway) calm and collected. I really only started to get emotional on the phone with my mom because she was so upset and I was sympathetic with her.
We’ll see what the next few days bring, though. I’m sure I’ll do my share of crying and riding the emotional rollercoaster. Password protected posts to come, I’m sure.
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Amber,
You have been in my thoughts since you posted the news about your father’s illness. I am sorry that he has passed away, but I am thankful that he is free from pain.
I hope that in the hectic days ahead, when you will be in Augusta, you and your family will have the time to share your memories of him: all the good times, sad times, and funny times.
Kochanie
I’m very sorry to learn of your loss, Amber. Enjoy the time with your family during the next week and take care.
Oh, Amber, what horrible news. I’m so sorry. I hope you’re doing okay and remember to take care of yourself this week. Much love to you and your family. Hang in there.
I am really sorry to hear about your dad. :(
*offering of Internet hugs*
That’s such sad news, I hope you and your family cope well, and you’ll be in my prayers.
I’m so sorry, Amber. I will say novenas for his passing, you have my condolences.
We miss you Amber!
Amber, I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. He would have been so proud of you. He lives on in your memories and your values.
Such sad news
My thoughts/prayers go out to you and your family.
Outis
I am so sorry Amber. You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts.
I am a regular lurker on your blog and I wanted to take this opporutnity to offer my condolences. It is never easy to lose a loved one and no amount of platitudes eases the pain.
” I wanted to take this opporutnity to offer my condolences. It is never easy to lose a loved one and no amount of platitudes eases the pain.”
Renee said it first, but I feel the same way. This is one of the least pleasant parts of life. Hang in and take care of your family.
You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs to you, Amber.
Amber,
Sorry to hear of your loss - best wishes from both of us.
R&A
I had no idea what happened until Saturday morning, I just knew that you had disappeared.
So sorry to hear about this. Know that you were missed and I’m sorry for your painful loss.
XX
Amber-
I am very sorry to read the news about your Dad. That’s just a very tough situation, and I offer up thoughts of support and prayers for you and your family.
All Best To You-
Mike
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