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		<title>By: Being Amber Rhea &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Class consciousness: all I can do is write my own story</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/09/30/three-vignettes-from-childhood/comment-page-1/#comment-35169</link>
		<dc:creator>Being Amber Rhea &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Class consciousness: all I can do is write my own story</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 17:25:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] memories:  First class-related memory. I&#8217;ve written about this one before, so I&#8217;ll just quote what I wrote then. When I was about 6 years old, there was this girl who [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] memories:  First class-related memory. I&#8217;ve written about this one before, so I&#8217;ll just quote what I wrote then. When I was about 6 years old, there was this girl who [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/09/30/three-vignettes-from-childhood/comment-page-1/#comment-32503</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Done. And, great story. :)</description>
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		<title>By: SnowdropExplodes</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/09/30/three-vignettes-from-childhood/comment-page-1/#comment-32502</link>
		<dc:creator>SnowdropExplodes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oops, I forgot to close the &quot;bold&quot; tag - can you correct that for us, Amber?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oops, I forgot to close the &#8220;bold&#8221; tag &#8211; can you correct that for us, Amber?</p>
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		<title>By: SnowdropExplodes</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/09/30/three-vignettes-from-childhood/comment-page-1/#comment-32501</link>
		<dc:creator>SnowdropExplodes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s one that I&#039;m quite proud of:

Aged about 5, playing in the school playground, things got rough and eventually, I ended up hitting another kid, and the teacher saw me.

I was in trouble.

Teacher came across, and stood us facing one another, told me I&#039;d done wrong (which I agreed I had, although wasn&#039;t given the chance to say so out loud) and then she demanded I apologize.   I remember very strongly how humiliated I felt by the demand, but I also remember agreeing I&#039;d done wrong and being quite prepared to do as I was told.   I just had one condition, which I stated clearly to the teacher:

&quot;Okay.   But go away first.&quot;

Teacher was outraged at my insubordination, and my best recollection of her words is that she said, &quot;Well, I&#039;ve never heard anything as rude!&quot;   I got into more trouble, but from my point of view, it was worth it, because I was standing up for my human dignity and I wasn&#039;t going to be &lt;b&gt;forced&lt;/b&gt; into an apology, but was perfectly willing to give one when it didn&#039;t feel forced upon me to do so.   I didn&#039;t have the words to explain all that, but I certainly had the emotional understanding to experience it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s one that I&#8217;m quite proud of:</p>
<p>Aged about 5, playing in the school playground, things got rough and eventually, I ended up hitting another kid, and the teacher saw me.</p>
<p>I was in trouble.</p>
<p>Teacher came across, and stood us facing one another, told me I&#8217;d done wrong (which I agreed I had, although wasn&#8217;t given the chance to say so out loud) and then she demanded I apologize.   I remember very strongly how humiliated I felt by the demand, but I also remember agreeing I&#8217;d done wrong and being quite prepared to do as I was told.   I just had one condition, which I stated clearly to the teacher:</p>
<p>&#8220;Okay.   But go away first.&#8221;</p>
<p>Teacher was outraged at my insubordination, and my best recollection of her words is that she said, &#8220;Well, I&#8217;ve never heard anything as rude!&#8221;   I got into more trouble, but from my point of view, it was worth it, because I was standing up for my human dignity and I wasn&#8217;t going to be <b>forced</b> into an apology, but was perfectly willing to give one when it didn&#8217;t feel forced upon me to do so.   I didn&#8217;t have the words to explain all that, but I certainly had the emotional understanding to experience it.</p>
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		<title>By: J. Brotherlove</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/09/30/three-vignettes-from-childhood/comment-page-1/#comment-32491</link>
		<dc:creator>J. Brotherlove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 22:11:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha! &lt;a href=&quot;http://jbrotherlove.com/2008/childhood-vignette-eat-me/&quot; title=&quot;Eat Me&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I just thought of one&lt;/a&gt;!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha! <a href="http://jbrotherlove.com/2008/childhood-vignette-eat-me/" title="Eat Me" rel="nofollow">I just thought of one</a>!</p>
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		<title>By: Childhood Vignette: Eat Me &#187; jbrotherlove</title>
		<link>http://www.beingamberrhea.com/2008/09/30/three-vignettes-from-childhood/comment-page-1/#comment-32490</link>
		<dc:creator>Childhood Vignette: Eat Me &#187; jbrotherlove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 22:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Note: This post was inspired by Amber. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Note: This post was inspired by Amber. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great stories! And Rusty, I totally agree about Showbiz. It was way better.

My memories aren&#039;t as strong as yours, but this is the first one that popped into mind:

When I was about 6 or 7, there were a group of older boys in the neighborhood who one day began terrorizing me and my friends when we were trying to play. (Shocking though it may seem, at age 6 or 7 I was not yet freakishly tall.)  They were 11 or 12 and they kept harassing us, pushing us down and getting in our way, and wouldn&#039;t let us get away from them even to go home.  I got annoyed with it all, and when one of the guys tried to wrestle one of my friends onto the ground, I kicked him in the balls.  HARD.  And at that point they all decided to leave.  I was a total hero for about a week.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great stories! And Rusty, I totally agree about Showbiz. It was way better.</p>
<p>My memories aren&#8217;t as strong as yours, but this is the first one that popped into mind:</p>
<p>When I was about 6 or 7, there were a group of older boys in the neighborhood who one day began terrorizing me and my friends when we were trying to play. (Shocking though it may seem, at age 6 or 7 I was not yet freakishly tall.)  They were 11 or 12 and they kept harassing us, pushing us down and getting in our way, and wouldn&#8217;t let us get away from them even to go home.  I got annoyed with it all, and when one of the guys tried to wrestle one of my friends onto the ground, I kicked him in the balls.  HARD.  And at that point they all decided to leave.  I was a total hero for about a week.</p>
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		<title>By: J. Brotherlove</title>
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		<dc:creator>J. Brotherlove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 18:03:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL. Great memories. I swear I don&#039;t remember many of mine. I&#039;d have to sit in a quiet room with no stimuli (which rarely happens) to come up with something.

Also, lol @ Rusty smelling like elephant all day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL. Great memories. I swear I don&#8217;t remember many of mine. I&#8217;d have to sit in a quiet room with no stimuli (which rarely happens) to come up with something.</p>
<p>Also, lol @ Rusty smelling like elephant all day.</p>
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		<title>By: Rusty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rusty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 16:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s one I remember:

I was at Showbiz Pizza (which was way better than Chuck E Cheese). I can&#039;t remember how old I was, but I&#039;m guessing somewhere between 4 and 7. For some reason they had an elephant out front and were offering kids rides on it. So I took a ride, and smelled like elephant for the rest of the day. Elephant is a very specific smell that&#039;s close to fertilizer, but not exactly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s one I remember:</p>
<p>I was at Showbiz Pizza (which was way better than Chuck E Cheese). I can&#8217;t remember how old I was, but I&#8217;m guessing somewhere between 4 and 7. For some reason they had an elephant out front and were offering kids rides on it. So I took a ride, and smelled like elephant for the rest of the day. Elephant is a very specific smell that&#8217;s close to fertilizer, but not exactly.</p>
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