links for 2008-12-29
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"Being secure enough in yourself to not be threatened by your partner’s sexual fantasies is a paramount of a sexually happy and satisfying relationship. Being open to hearing your partner’s fantasies without judgment or jealousy doesn’t necessarily mean you have to do those things, it just means you have to validate them and not make them feel that they can’t talk with you about them."
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"Each time I am called one of the names, my accuser gives an account of my failings. I am either living in the past, not seeing clearly, or base my opinions on irrational hatred. It seems that no matter how well thought out my argument is there is always some huge gaping fault when it challenges any kind of privilege. If I wasn't so racist/homophobic/man hating I would be able to see the truth that my accusers have laid out before me. One of my personal favourites is that I am creating an issue where none actually exists. Yep the hysterical female argument."
Dec 29 2008 07:30 am | Category: del.icio.us links
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