Regional bias

Rusty already wrote about this on his blog, but there are a few things I’d like to say on the topic, as well. Not sure how long this post will be, because a lot of what I want to say, I’m not sure how to translate from the gobbledy-gook in my head to the written word.

I’m no stranger to anti-South bias, especially given the fact that when you spend a lot of your time online, you naturally encounter people from all over. Offline too, there’s plenty of it… I vividly reminder one time, sophomore year of college at NYU, a friend of mine launched into this diatribe that started with, “What I don’t like about the South is…” and he started rattling off a bunch of stereotypes. I stopped him and asked if he’d ever been to the South. He hadn’t. I tore him a bit of a new asshole, he admitted he was behaving like a presumptuous jerk, and we went to dinner.

So anyway, I know that stuff is out there. It bugs me, but not on a daily basis. But in recent months/weeks/days, it’s become a bit more pronounced in my vicinity.

Take PodCamp NYC, for example. I detected a fair amount of anti-South bias - the most egregious example, of course, being the guy who came up to Rusty and me and started a sentence with, “I don’t want to pre-judge, BUT…” - at which time, he proceeded to pre-judge like a mofo. He asked if since we were in Georgia, most of our podcasts were about personal stories and stuff (from “military spouses,” among others), not world events. He didn’t seem to think there was anything fucked-up about that question, and even seemed to be a bit amused with himself. There we were, real live dumb Georgia hicks for him to talk at!! Maw, get the skillet!

Then there was the cab driver who took us to the airport Sunday morning, who said “I don’t care about the South” and “I don’t like the South because it’s too slow.” Okay, first of all, the South is a pretty big region - even if you’ve never been here, wouldn’t you venture a guess that it’s not all completely the same? Secondly, just who the fuck does this guy think he is?

So those are two very in-your-face examples. But there was also plenty of it running just beneath the surface. That, of course, is the type that’s the most insidious, because you can’t point your finger at one specific thing and say, “See?? Bias!!”

I’ve had the feeling, for a while now, that PodCamp Atlanta wasn’t taken as seriously among the PodCamp elite (whatever that means, but bear with me) because it was, well, in Atlanta. My intuition is rarely wrong on perceptions like these, so I think it’s worth mentioning, at least. Never mind what a completely kick-ass event we had, full of energy and passion, with overwhelmingly positive reviews, not to mention making national news. It’s the South; so, obviously, not quite as good. (Or, I imagine, something along those lines.)

I want to be clear: this isn’t an accusation. It’s a statement of how I’ve felt, of perceptions I’ve had, and things I’ve picked up on; little things, here and there. Not that it’ll stop me/us from making my/our voice(s) heard. But it is… annoying, nonetheless.

Now, as for anti-South bias on a broader (ie, not just PodCamp-related) scale?

It’s possible to make observations about certain institutions of the South without reducing individuals to stereotypes. This is exactly the kind of thing we’ve talked about on some of the feminist blogs lately: critique and analyze the structure/issue; don’t make presumptions about individuals, sight unseen.

And, it’s very telling to me when self-identified progressives get squirrely about this WRT the South. I’ve seen some people practically fall over themselves to defend their prejudice. Because apparently this kind of prejudice is okay. (Reminds me of how quickly the mask comes off with some self-identified progressives when they’re called on racist or sexist behavior.)

No - it’s not okay.
And I/we/you should not have to put up with it as some kind of nebulous atonement, which is what the justification typically is.

[Originally posted at the old blog]

Input, please

More to come, but first…

  1. I’ll probably end up getting a camera phone fairly soon. I don’t need something super snazzy (read: expensive) but I don’t want a piece of crap either. Any recommendations?
  2. My blog’s fifth birthday is fast approaching. April 17 is the big day. It’s kind of painful, but I’m thinking that I may have finally outgrown - though I hesitate to use that word, but I can’t think of a better one - my homegrown blogging system. In commemoration of five years of blogging, should I move to WordPress? What do you think?

I need to blog about PodCamp NYC and general New York stuff, but that’ll have to come later. In the meantime read Rusty’s posts: PodCamp New York liveblogging and My renewed appreciation for the South. I have more to say on the anti-South bias topic. Suffice it to say for now, that shit pisses me off. No, it is not okay to stereotype Southerners, especially if you consider yourself “enlightened” or “progressive.”

Still waffling over whether to write a post about why I have heretofore not worked in the sex industry, and why I may yet need to do so, in some capacity. On a related note, I said somewhat smart stuff at Sherry’s MySpace blog.

And get a load of this, I am now using Twitter. You knew the day would come. We’ll see how long this fascination (of a sort) endures. Oh, and also? (Last thing, I swear). LibraryThing. Thanks, Dacia, for pointing me to a Web 2.0 thingy that appeals to both my J-preference and my literary nerdiness. YASP… that’s all I need.

Off to NYC

In about an hour or so, the GDBF and I will be heading to the airport, bound for New York City. We’ll be hanging out with Dacia, going to PodCamp NYC, and hopefully meeting Belledame at some point. It’s going to be a great weekend!

I’m not bringing my laptop, but Rusty is bringing his, so I might borrow it for a bit on Saturday and try to sneak in some live-blogging. Regardless, there will be plenty of photos, and most likely a podcast or two.

Next post, from New York! (Hopefully the snow will be gone.)

Quick general update

Well, it’s official - Rusty and I are completely moved into our new apartment! The place is currently a disaster area, but hey, at least we have just one address now. We’re currently sitting at Doc Green’s eating dinner (because we’re getting a new fridge tomorrow) and using the free wifi (because the internet at our apartment isn’t working yet). I’ve felt sick for most of the afternoon - headache, stomach ache, sniffles, general ickiness. Sometimes I get really irritated with the way my body likes to pretend I’m 70 years old. (I’m pretty sure the frequent headaches I get are transformed migraines, but I’m not willing to endure the withdrawal symptoms of going off Excedrin cold turkey.)

So anyway! That’s the status. Blogging might continue to be light for a while. And, on Thursday, we’re heading up to New York to visit Dacia, go to PodCamp NYC, and nap whenever possible.

Well, we’re going to head home (our home!) soon and continue doing a ton of laundry. And I might edit a podcast… a week or so ago I interviewed one of the organizers of Frolicon, and I need to get the podcast up soon.

More new-apartment-related (and other) updates coming eventually!

Places we’ll be (very far OTP)

Rusty and I are going to be jet-setting podcasters this year - because, why the hell not? Here are some events we’ll be gracing with our presence:

PodCamp NYC

PodCamp NYC

April 6-7, 2007

New York, NY

BlogHer conference

BlogHer ‘07

July 27-28, 2007

Chicago, IL

Podcast and New Media Expo

Podcast and New Media Expo

Sept. 28-30, 2007

Ontario, CA

…and maybe more! But this is what we know for sure.

In New York we’ll be staying with the lovely and talented Dacia; it’ll be great to see her again and I’m glad she and Rusty will finally be able to meet. And I’m excited about going to Chicago and California (Ontario is near LA, if I remember correctly) because I’ve never been to either place.

But before all that, I have to finish pulling PodCamp Atlanta out of my ass… if you haven’t signed up yet, you’d better hurry up and do it, because space is going fast.