My notes while listening to Bedroom Radio episode 16.5

I meant to post this a few days ago. After furiously typing these notes, I managed to call and leave a mostly-coherent voice mail.

I am now posting the rough-cut version as a total cop-out of a blog post. And I see now that there’s some ambiguity, but I’m not going to “correct” any of it. Fortunately it made sense to me at the time.

  • Anti-sex work bias affects clients, too
  • Letters From Johns shows they don’t have a vocabulary to talk about sex work outside of the stereotypes
  • Stigma and shame around being a client when it comes to the individual, even though in general it’s accepted that it’s ok for men to be clients as long as they don’t talk about it - or as long as they don’t talk about it *seriously* or by invoking a power dynamic
  • Review boards result in competition among escorts and gossiping and bad-mouthing - generally not a good thing
  • I don’t think sex work thrives because of shame. I think it thrives in spite of shame. It shows just how powerful sexuality is. I think one thing that might change is there might be more male sex workers and female clients.
  • Illegality of some types of sex work reinforces the lack of discourse about sex work by the people actually involved (workers and clients) and leads to the continuing trope of people talking ABOUT and FOR sex workers and clients.

Listen to Bedroom Radio episode 16.5 here, and call in with your own thoughts! (As a fellow podcaster I know how important voice mail is.)

Next weekend: Balticon 42

On Friday, Rusty and I will be heading to Baltimore for Balticon. We’ve never been before, but as I understand it, Balticon is like a mini Drangon*Con. I guess I’m showing my Atlanta-centricness here; maybe Baltimorans(?) would call Dragon*Con an overblown Balticon?

I’m going to be on four panels, which I’m very excited about. Here’s where I’ll be:

  • “Sex Tech, Now and Future” - Saturday, May 24, 11:00 p.m.
  • “Erotic Podcasts and Sexy New Media” - Sunday, May 25, 12:00 a.m. (a.k.a., midnight Saturday)
  • “Don’t Be That Guy: Advice From the Women of New Media” - Sunday, May 25, 2:00 p.m.
  • “So You Want to Be a Sex Podcaster” - Monday, May 26, 12:00 a.m. (a.k.a., midnight Sunday)

All of these panels are in the Chesepeake room (which I always read as “cheapskate”).

Here’s an episode of the Balticon Podcast that talks about the “late night” (a.k.a., sex) track. I would’ve called in via Skype but they recorded it on the evening of May 9.

On the latest episode of Mostly ITP, Rusty and I talk about how it’s funny that some people now classify our podcast as a sex podcast simply because we occasionally talk about sex. We’ve been pegged… right into the pink ghetto?

Anyway, we are very excited about Balticon. I’m looking forward to hanging out with Regina Lynn (we didn’t get to talk nearly enough at Sex 2.0) and meeting Nobilis and Helen Madden. And I’m also very excited about spending most of Saturday with Jenny! It seems weird to say we haven’t seen each other in over a year, since we keep in touch so much through email, IM, blogs, and now Twitter. Yay social media!

Georgia Podcast Network redesign is live!

Reposting from Rusty:

The redesign of the Georgia Podcast Network is live!

The short version of what’s new is:

  • Create podcasts, add episodes to them, or add your affiliate podcast to the directory without having to go through an administrator. Podcasts now work sort of like diaries on Tondee’s Tavern and other group blogs. Everybody can have one, but not everything makes the front page.
  • Let other members post episodes to your podcast. You can name co-hosts individually, or set the “group podcast” option to let any registered member post an episode. For examples of group podcasts, see (un)ConCast and Politics is Vocal.
  • Album art, channel, and other meta information can be attached to podcasts
  • Post M4V video in addition to MP3 audio
  • Nifty Flash uploader
  • Embeddable players and widgets
  • iTunes meta information in podcast RSS feeds
  • Can redirect podcast RSS feeds to Feedburner
  • Webplay and download statistics
  • Rebuilt podcast directory
  • Pretty new theme
  • Better performance. Up to 8 times faster under normal server load

That’s not everything, but that’s the important stuff. There are still some minor CSS issues to work out in Internet Explorer 6, but it should be relatively bug-free other than that. Have a look and let us know what you think!

Mostly ITP live tonight

Reposting from Rusty’s blog

Assuming our Internet connection doesn’t crap out and any of a million other technical maladies don’t afflict us, we’re going to attempt a live episode of Mostly ITP tonight on Talkshoe. The only things we have planned right now are to play a couple of listener voicemails and to talk a little about Sex 2.0, which is coming up next Saturday. That’s maybe 10 minutes of material. If people actually call in, we’d like to spend the rest of the time addressing topics from live callers. If you don’t, I guess we’ll just bullshit for 20 minutes.

Here is the relevant info:

Time: 9 p.m. EST
Stream and web chat URL: http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/17403
Phone: (724) 444-7444, call ID 17403
Twitter: amberlrhea and rustytanton

On the Internetz TeeVee

Even though I’ve never had a problem with being photographed (really I had no choice, my mom was a shutterbug who was posing me for photos practically from the day I was born), and podcasting has eroded any apprehension I once felt about hearing my own voice, I still get all weird and self-conscious about being on video. And yet, here I am, as a podcasting “pro” in the latest episode of The Squadcast.

Thanks to Grant and Christina for inviting me on!

Sex 2.0 podcast promos available

On the Sex 2.0 Promotion page, we’ve posted two audio promos that you can download and include in your podcasts. The 15-second promo is all business; no funny stuff. The 30-second promo has a little humor to it. Please include one of them in your podcast if the spirit moves!

[Cross-posted at the Sex 2.0 blog]

A poll to start out 2008

As mentioned in the year-end episode of Mostly ITP, I recently lost a potential consulting client because the person was too uncomfortable with the fact that I blog and podcast about sex. Oh, heavens!! Anyway, it spurred a conversation between Rusty and me about which of our podcasts has been the most X-rated. We concluded without a conclusion, since it’s all so arbitrary anyway and everyone will have their own definition of “obscene” and other bullshit words. I am, however, curious to know what people think, so here’s a poll!



This is my first time trying PollMonkey, and I only have a free account, so hopefully this will work.

A year in pictures, part II

Since I love photography and I’ve been behind the camera quite a bit this year, I thought I’d do another version of the “year in pictures” meme. For this round, I chose one of my favorite photos from each month based on artistic/”slice of life” quality. It was really hard to narrow things down to just one photo from some months - especially December! But I did it.

If the location isn’t explicitly stated, it’s safe to assume the photo was taken in or near Atlanta.

Without further ado, here it is… (Again, this isn’t friendly to folks on slow connections. My apologies and such.)
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End of year podcast coming soon: leave a message, we’ll play it!

I am just going to copy Rusty’s post word for word here…

Mostly ITP

The end of another year is coming soon, which means another end-of-year episode of Mostly ITP! Here’s last year’s episode.

We try not to get all PBS-beg-a-thon about asking people for participation in things, but it would be nice if y’all would leave some voicemails for us to play. Have a favorite episode? Have an episode that made you want to veer off the road into a telephone pole in disgust? Don’t listen to the show, but do a great impression of Charles Bronson baking a pie wearing nothing but an apron and a smile? We’d love to hear from you.

You can call and leave us voicemail at 678.389.9441, or you can leave a message on [Rusty's] Skype account at rustytanton.

Thanks!

Another South Carolina road trip

After work today, Rusty and I will be heading to Augusta, where we’ll be staying overnight. Then tomorrow morning, we’re heading to Columbia, SC, to continue my hunt for family history (as previously described), take photos of the city, and just relax.

We’ll be in Columbia until Saturday. We’ll probably record a podcast while we’re there; we actually have topics ready for two separate podcasts: one talkie, and one movie review podcast. It’s also likely that I’ll finish Bob Jensen’s book tonight (only a few more excruciating pages to go) and write some sort of book review.

Maybe it will rain in Atlanta while we’re gone.

Items of note

A few things I should mention:

  • The recording of my “Podcasting and Beyond” session at ConvergeSouth is now up as an episode of (un)ConCast.
  • In a new “talkie” episode of Mostly ITP, Rusty and I discuss Halloween, social networks, sex clubs, and group sex ratios. We also announce a few upcoming events and promise to do an interactive episode soon.
  • Check out the latest GA Politics Podcast. It apparently caused some drama in the local political blogosphere, but I haven’t been involved in that. All I know is, as a member of the live studio audience (ya know, at Manuel’s), I think it was the best episode yet. Lots of energy and good discussion.
  • I don’t think I ever linked to these, so here are some photos from my Level 5 pole dancing graduation. I didn’t bother with photos during the routine this time, so these were taken afterward.

#4 layback

Advanced shooting star (aka Gemini)

Liz brought roses for everyone!

The graduates!

Happy Friday, all!

Would you come to a “mini” PodCamp Atlanta?

This post will be an amalgamation of emails…

First, I received this email from Chris Brogan:

I might have venue space for a PodCamp Atlanta on Dec 5-6. Weekday timeframe, so I know it might draw different, or might not work out for you. What do you think?

I replied that I would be out of town Dec. 6-7, and that I’m currently too overloaded with other projects at the moment to take on anything else, but that it sounds like a good idea and if people are interested, we should try to do it. (A weekday timeframe isn’t great for me personally, because I work during the week, but I think the fact that it would draw a different crowd makes it an interesting idea.) So I sent this email to the Atlanta Podcasters Google group and the PodCamp Atlanta Google group:

See note below from Chris Brogan. The location is Cobb Galleria. I think doing a “mini” PodCamp Atlanta would be cool; however, I’m going to be out of town on Dec. 6th, and have a lot going on between now and then, so I really cannot commit to being the organizer. If anyone else is interested in seeing this happen, please reply ASAP. I will forward names of those interested to Chris.

The only responses I received were two terse emails which basically dismissed the entire idea out of hand.

Today I emailed both groups again:

Okay, well, so far, the only responses I’ve gotten have been two people saying they don’t think a mid-week PodCamp would work. (Which I take to mean, *they* wouldn’t come to a mid-week PodCamp. Whether anyone else would come is another matter entirely, but I’ve not received any other input.) I still think it would be a good idea and a worthy experiment, if nothing else; but like I said, I am not able to take on the task of single-handedly organizing it right now. So, I’ll give it until the end of this week for someone else to volunteer to handle things (it wouldn’t be a ton of work, if you’re on the fence) and if no one speaks up, then we’ll just nix the idea of a December mini-PodCamp Atlanta.

Frankly, I think it would not be a big deal to do this and make it very hardcore BarCamp-style. That is, no advance planning of sessions, people just show up and propose sessions the day of, and then see where things go. Get your own food, no T-shirts or other fancy schwag, just people hanging out and sharing good ideas and conversation. (Side note: if I hear the word “conversation” used to describe the ethos of social media one more time, I think I might vomit.) Brogan seems to think there needs to be more advance organizing than that, and generally I would be inclined to agree, since I don’t like leaving stuff up to chance - it makes me nervous and sometimes physically ill. But I think that if this is a “mini” PodCamp, there’s no need to go overboard. But he’s apparently not comfortable doing it without something a little more formal. And I can understand that.

So if any of y’all are interested, please speak up ASAP. Otherwise, I hope you’ll still plan to participate in the next full-on PodCamp Atlanta, which is scheduled for May 17-18, 2008. (And I will need a lot of planning assistance with that, so consider this your heads-up!)

If interested, comment here, email one of the groups, and/or email me directly. Thanks.

What should I talk about at ConvergeSouth?

I’m presenting at ConvergeSouth, a little less than one month from now. My session is called “Podcasting and Beyond.” I think the ConvergeSouth people gave it that name; or else I did and just don’t remember. Anyway, I want to focus on the “beyond” aspect, rather than getting tied up in boring technical details and talking about the pros and cons of various audio editors (I hate talking about that kind of shit) and explaining what an RSS feed is, and such. But “beyond” is pretty broad, so if you’re going to be there and have an opinion about what the general theme of the session should be, let me know.

ConvergeSouth is an unconference, so it’s not like I’ll be yakking the whole time. I plan to talk for like 5-10 minutes at the beginning, and then just do the open-ended discussion thing; but even with an open-ended discussion, you need some kind of unifying theme.

Share your thoughts!

PodCamp 1-year anniversary video

Created by Larry Lawfer of YourStorys. In it, Chris Penn gives a shout-out to PodCamp Atlanta for getting an AP story. :)

Congrats to everyone involved in all things PodCamp!

Rusty teaches podcasting with Drupal

Tomorrow night, Rusty will be doing a presentation on podcasting with Drupal, at the monthly Drupal Atlanta meeting. It’s in Alpharetta, at the 5 Seasons Brewery, starting at 7:00. Here are the details:

Drupal core contains everything you need to post podcasts without any third-party modules, so just come with a working Drupal 5 installation if you’d like to participate.

The method I’ll teach uses the stripped-down CCK (Content Construction Kit) that’s built into Drupal 5 along with the core Upload module. It’s not the only way to podcast with Drupal, but I think for most purposes it’s the best way. During the opening presentation, we’ll briefly discuss the pros and cons of using this method versus other methods (like using the Audio and/or Video modules).

We may play with SWF Tools if there’s time to show you how you can add Flash players to enhance the user experience. The module is currently broken but expected to be fixed soon, and in the very near future will be the best and easiest way to add Flash players to your podcast. If time permits, we can also discuss how to add Flash players using PHPTemplate.

I think he should do this presentation at PodCamp Atlanta next year, too. :)

Sorry about the lack of blogging… I just haven’t felt like it, with everything that’s been going on (sporadic net access included). I’ll be back into the swing of things eventually. Today, I feel delirious.

We’re not media?

Last year, Rusty and I went to Dragon*Con for the first time for either of us, and we had a blast. Derek and Swoopy of Skepticality fame had worked tirelessly to put together a podcasting track, in addition to the first Parsec Awards. We participated in three panels, recorded four podcasts, and blogged about it. Here we are looking Very Serious Indeed:

Me and Rusty at the Podcasting Directories panel at Dragon*Con

This year, the podcasting track and the Parsec Awards are back, bigger than last year and with a lot of good energy that’s getting more palpable as D*C gets closer. We’re on the schedule for four panels, but unfortunately, it now looks like we might not be attending at all.

Last year we were able to acquire media passes, thanks to our friend (and D*C veteran) Thomas knowing who to contact and what info to supply. You can see the evidence here. Naturally, we figured we would be on the list for media passes again this year. However, when Thomas contacted The People In Charge to make sure, he was told:

As I explained last year, Podcasting is not considered Media. They are really tightening the belt about free badges and keeping very close tabs. I did you a personal favor last year and unfortunately I just can’t do it again this year. I’m so sorry.

You will have to get your badges thru the Podcasting Track or purchase them. However if you get badges elsewhere, I can give you Press Ribbons to allow you Media access.

A few things here.

First of all, if the badges were a personal favor last year, how is it that we didn’t know that at the time? That little bit of information was news to us.

Second, this person says “as I explained last year,” but I don’t recall any such explaining.

Third, I find it odd that this person would be able to give us press ribbons to attach to our badges as long as we get the badges somewhere else. What does that do for (here comes the C-word) credibility? Either podcasting is media or it isn’t. This makes it sound like podcasting can be media, as long as it’s someone else who dirties their hands with the issue of actual badges.

Thomas has sent a follow-up email, making the case that embracing podcasters as media is very good for Dragon*Con - much moreso than just relying on local radio stations and print publications. Radio coverage will likely be limited to 5-10 minutes of “Let’s make fun of the furries,” courtesy of the Wacky Morning Team, and print either won’t cover it at all or will run a sarcastic blurb alongside a photo of a furry in full costume.

Or, as Thomas put it in an email (emphasis mine):

With any luck, the Podcasting track will be able to get more participant recognition next year. Because the truth of the matter is that Dragon*Con stands a much better chance of being covered fairly and accurately by people in the podcasting community, right down to the individual track-by-track level.

I’m sure you’ve gotten the yearly media requests from the local television and radio stations, but if history is any indicator, I’m pretty sure I know what they’ll do. Local television will show up at 7am on Friday to catch early risers in costume, then come back over the weekend to get footage of the big parade on Peachtree. Local radio will (at best) do some kind of remote broadcast for half-a-day or (at worst) send some morning show personality to interrupt players in the gaming hall and record their reactions, like WNNX did a few years back.

I’m disappointed, but what do you do? In fairness, it seems as though the person with whom Thomas was corresponding was not the decision maker here. I don’t know who ultimately makes the call on stuff like this.

In all likelihood, we’ll still try to go to the podcasting track. We might be able to attend the panels without a badge and just not go to any other part of the con. Or maybe we could get temporary or one-day badges at a discount. So, currently our attendee status is up in the air, with a hopeful outlook.

This situation also raises an interesting issue that D*C will have to grapple with soon: if everyone is the media - and certainly, a large percentage of D*C participants produce some form of web-based media - then how do they go about doling out media passes? They’re either going to have to stop giving them out altogether, or let everyone in for free (and the latter, of course, is not realistic).

I’m presenting at ConvergeSouth

ConvergeSouth 2007 This October will mark the third ConvergeSouth unconference, which I believe (and don’t quote me on this, ’cause I might be wrong) was the first new media unconference in the South. Rusty and I were there last year and it proved to be the gateway drug for what’s developed into an unconference addiction on our part; we’ll be back for another fix this year, and this time, I’m a presenter.

I’ll be leading a session titled “Podcasting and Beyond,” scheduled for 1:00-2:00 (I think; the schedule is a little hard to read) on Saturday, October 20. It’s listed as a how-to session, but I don’t plan to get too deep into the nuts-and-bolts of the technical side of podcasting. If people want an Audacity demo, we can do that before or after; but in unconference fashion, I would like this to be more of a discussion about what the “beyond” is. If you’ll be at ConvergeSouth, let me know if you have any ideas of what you’d like to see in this session!

Also, for any of y’all who are handy with a digicam, ConvergeSouth will have a film festival component this year. In particular, several local folks come to mind for the Citizen Journalism category:

We are looking for self-produced videos that are newsworthy stories. Can be but not limited to stories about historic events, local politics, corporate accountability, personal documentary, current events and similar. No more than 15 minutes in length.

Submit your videos by September 25!

Look for us at BlogHer

BlogHer '07 Conference This weekend, Rusty and I will be heading to Chicago for the third annual BlogHer conference! I’m looking forward to attending lots of great sessions and meeting a bunch of people whose blogs I’ve been reading for months or years. We’ll also be hanging around Chicago for a few extra days after the conference for general vacationing goodness - a baseball game, a surgical museum, and a chick hatchery, among other things. Standard issue, really.

If you’ll be at BlogHer, say hi if you see us. And yes, we’ll be recording a podcast (maybe more than one). This will be the furthest OTP we’ve gone so far!

[Cross-posted on my Georgia Podcast Network blog]

What Is Goin’ On? - now with podPress power!

The new version of the What Is Goin’ On? web site launched today (or, late last night, to be more accurate). If you don’t know, What Is Goin’ On? is, without a doubt, the best damn radio show in the state. Brilliance comes from Lyons, Georgia.

The new site is the first official Georgia Podcast Network design and development project (other than our own site, of course) to see the light of day. Rusty did most of the work; I mainly spent a lot of time tagging all the archives, because that kind of thing appeals to my J-preference.

So check it out, and subscribe to the feed to get a steady fix of good, no-bullshit interviews.

Also, Rusty posted news about some other GAPN news. Have a look, see what’s up.

Podcastin’ and sex clubbin’

Last night, we recorded the GA Politics Podcast on the roof.

Recording the GA Politics Podcast

There was a bit of drama, but I was actually expecting more. This is good or bad depending on how you look at it.

Also last night, after the podcast party, Rusty and I went to another sex club - Club Venus this time. This one sucked even worse than our Trapeze experience last weekend, if you can believe it. I’ll blog about it in more detail later.

Summer plans

I can hardly believe that BlogHer (and our concurrent, general-purpose Chicago vacationing) is only five weeks away! I am really excited about BlogHer. It will be so cool to meet a bunch of bloggers from all over the country (and world), whose blogs I’ve been reading for months or years.

But, before the Chicago trip, there’s plenty of other stuff Rusty and I need to do, too! Sometimes trying to do a bunch of stuff can be draining for me, but I guess I’ve got the summertime itch, because I am ready to do as much fun, interesting stuff as is logistically possible between now and the end of July.

For one thing, I am so excited about going on a trip to Milledgeville. Why would I be excited about Milledgeville, you ask? Oh come on… what’s not to like? Central State Hospital (originally the Georgia Lunatic Asylum) and its museum of weird mental health torture treatment devices is reason enough to go. But there’s also the old state prison, which I hear is only slightly less creepy than Central State; and all the paraphernalia from when Milledgeville was the state capital. There’s other specifics, but I’m too tired to look ‘em up right now. Anyway, expect a podcast about Milledgeville, within the next few weeks.

I’m also excited about doing our “review of Atlanta sex clubs” podcast, as mentioned here. We’ll probably hit Trapeze again the Saturday after next; and then Club Venus at some point in the not too distant future. With this goal in mind, it doesn’t even matter if the hotness factor of the clubs is minimal.

Okay, I’m really tired now… just wanted to put up a rambling post about my summertime excitement.

Farewell Doug podcast

Last night, Rusty, Grayson, Catherine, Griftdrift, the blogless Trackboy1, and I went to Manuel’s and recorded a farewell podcast for Doug Monroe. Listen to it here. And just do your best to disregard Trackboy1’s stupid “chocolate city” remark, because other than that, the podcast is awesome.

We’ll miss you, Doug!